Two weeks into the new year, the world is still reeling with the uncertainty and turmoil of the global pandemic. The unprecedented events of 2020 left many unsettled and confused about the future. Almost overnight it seemed if we had awoken in a new world – a brave new world – where we have been told to social distance ourselves from others not from our ‘support bubbles’. Where anyone not wearing a face covering out of doors is viewed with suspicion. Everything seems to have been turned topsy-turvy: visiting extended family is outlawed, catching up with a friend over coffee is impossible as cafes are closed and holding a large family gathering risks a hefty fine. With all this doom and gloom, it has been surprising and uplifting to hear stories of generosity and compassion – proof that in times of turbulence, the spirit of humanity soars. There is hope that this year will bring at least a partial return to normality.
As December gives way to January, many people around the world set New Year Resolutions, goals they hope to achieve in the coming year. In the current climate, where policies and legislations change by the day and restrictions are lifted and imposed almost spontaneously, a wise person would begin with shorter term goals. One such person is my daughter, masha’Allah, who suggested having monthly goals and then we can build on them or amend them regularly. So, armed with a new diary to list the possibilities, I came up with a personal checklist, trying to forge new habits as a means to become more productive.
A good starting point, is to think about which areas of your life could be improved, and how. Maintaining health in mind and body is essential to fulfil roles and responsibilities. So regular walks, mindful eating and learning a new skill would not only be fun but would also be sustainable. Spiritual health is just as important and nourishment for your soul should be addressed by establishing good habits to enable better connection with Allah, like increase in remembrance of The Almighty, keeping a gratitude journal or inspiring others with stories and anecdotes.
Looking through the list now, I definitely will need to update this checklist: It would make more sense to read a minimum amount of pages from the Quran rather than specifying time. Also, a weekly reminder is more realistic than a daily one. Overall, however, it has helped me to remain on track and has also helped me develop a morning routine. I would encourage everyone to have such a checklist with tasks personalised to your own goals. I have started writing in my diary too, but need to try to make daily entries about things that matter to me most, rather than trivia.
Apart from aspiring to great expectations for the coming 12 months, the new year is a timely opportunity to reflect on your experiences during the last year. It is important to note that there are things beyond our control which cannot change no matter how hard we try to think them away. Focus instead on your actions and deeds; what were your achievements, what could you have done better? It is beneficial to hold yourself to account, acknowledge your highs and lows and deduce life lessons that can help you better understand yourself and your actions. Past events are helpful in informing our future plans, as a guide for self improvement and as a drive to help us achieve our goals.
The great Muslim scholar, Hasan al Basri said:
“The world is of 3 days:
as for yesterday, it has vanished along with all that was in it.
As for tomorrow, you may never see it.
As for today, it is yours,
so work on it.”
A new year is a chance to start anew, look forward to the next 12 months with vigour and excitement. Nobody knows what tomorrow will bring but we have to be hopeful and positive. Humans have a face which looks forward and eyes that look up to the heavens. Our goal is to attain Paradise, to reach the place where there is no feeling of remorse or loss. Our time on this Earth is limited and will be over in the blink of an eye. Use your time wisely, aspire to excellence and live your life to its full, potential, insha’Allah.
MasyaAllah..tabaarakallah. A very good reminder sister
Jazak Allah khair
Masha’Allah nice to see you back writing again, insha’Allah.
Jazak Allah khair