Raise your hands to heaven

One of the most beautiful aspects about worship in Islam is that we are able to call upon Allah, subhaana wa ta’ala, directly; without the need of any intermediary. Imagine – if you were given a private audience with the most powerful king and while in his presence you could address him with all your needs and concerns. How much more astonishing that the Creator Himself, the King of Kings is ever ready, not just to listen to your supplication but to respond to it. Allah, subhaana wa ta’ala says in the Qur’aan:

‘And your Lord says, “Call upon Me; I will respond to you.” Indeed, those who disdain My worship will enter Hell [rendered] contemptible’.

(Qur’aan 40:60)

There are certain etiquettes the supplicant is recommended to follow and certain times and situations when praying is encouraged and insha’Allah I will be covering some of these points in future articles on the same topic. As I write this post, it is the last hour of the day of Jummah and my earnest wish is that all our prayers be answered and that we are given the taufiq, the God-given ability, to be able to make dua.

Dua is often referred to as a ‘weapon’ or ‘fortress’ of a Muslim because of it’s inherent ability to potentially change the situation of the believer. Most people, not understanding the immense power of dua, pay little more than lip service to the act, running through a well-rehearsed list of needs and wants or repeating a prescribed prayer in Arabic without understanding its meaning. If they strongly believed that they were in the presence of the Almighty, their words would be more heart-felt, beseeching Allah in earnest.

The Prophet, may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him, was reported as saying:

“There is nothing more dear to Allah than a servant making dua to Him.” 

(At-Tirmidhi)

These are some points to consider the next time you call on Allah in prayer:

  • Pray with yaqeen, the certainty that Allah hears all dua and He will answer it in a way that is best for you. Allah is onmipotent, all-powerful, all knowledgeable and he knows what our hearts yearn for, whether or not we are able to vocalise it in speech. He is fully aware of our situation and He decrees what is best for us and when. There is nothing beyond His power and ability so don’t even for a second doubt that your dua will not be answered. It definitely will be, but maybe not in the manner you imagined.
  • Focus your attention while doing dua, be conscious that you have been given this ongoing opportunity to pour your heart out to the One who is the Controller, Sustainer and Creator of all. Give time to your supplication and avoid getting distracted. Try to find a quiet place and a few moments of peace where you can give the prayer justice.
  • Remember that dua is not just for requesting needs and wants but also to acknowledge our shortcomings; to turn to Allah with sincere regret and repentance for wrongdoings that may have been done consciously or unconsciously. A dua also provides an opportunity to show our gratitude for all the blessings Allah freely and continually gives.
  • Be persistent, like when a young child is asking a parent, knowing fully well that the parent will listen to their plea.
  • Purify your intentions and make dua whenever you feel the inclination, not just limiting it to recommended times.
  • Learn and use Allah’s magnificent Names to call upon Him. For example Al-Razaq, the Provider of all sustenance, to increase and put barakah in your rizq.
  • Complete your dua by sending salaam on the Prophet, may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him. Finally, you can recite any dua from the Qur’aan and Sunnah as long as you understand it’s meaning.

This is just an introduction to the topic and insha’Allah I will be looking at some duas from the Qur’aan and Sunnah and the stories behind them. I will also be touching upon the points above with more detail and examples, insha’Allah.

May Allah, subhaana wa ta’ala, accept all our duas and may He give us the ability to call on Him, praise Him and remember Him often. Ameen.

Take a break

As soon as I wake up every morning, my mind starts racing ahead; reminding me of jobs to do. As soon as I complete one task, I am reminded of something else – household chores, emails to send, phone calls to make, online grocery shopping, revising for an upcoming test, taking my vitamins, my ongoing mega task of de-cluttering and of course keeping up with my religious obligations. It is not surprising that at times I feel overwhelmed with my responsibilities, especially when they seem to pile up due to unforeseen delays and poor time management. Even when seemingly ‘resting’, the voice in my head is unstoppable – ‘get up, you’ve got to hang out the washing’. I’m not very good with multi-tasking and can only concentrate on one job at a time. Whatever your role and current situation, I’m sure you have been through days like these. So many of us carry on like robots and literally fall asleep at the end of the day from tiredness.

Proponents of mindfulness, well-being and positive mental health all advocate taking a break, a pause, as being very beneficial in alleviating stress. This could mean a change of scenery or even a quiet moment to yourself. It is interesting that when he heard that his daughter intended to ask for someone to help her in the household chores, the Prophet, may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him, instead told her to do dhikr, to say; Alhamdulilah (all praise is for God), Subhaanallah (exhalted is God) and Allahu Akbar (God is greater than all). He prescribed saying the first two phrases 33 and the last one 34 times, so mentioning Allah’s name 100 times and his daughter, Fatima (may Allah be pleased with her) was happy with the advice.

You may ask how does this tasbih help someone to get through the day’s tasks? Firstly, as Allah has stated Himself, hearts find comfort in the remembrance of Allah. Also, my understanding is that by taking out a few minutes to say these phrases, you are allowing yourself to pause from your chores. Even a short pause in the day helps you to re-energise and refocus. It is recommended to say this dhikr after every mandatory salah. So a believer remains seated for a few moments after the salah before he goes back to what he was doing. Again taking a short break from the mundane tasks ahead.

In particular, the five daily salahs help to punctuate the day and provide the small breaks we need to re-centre and refresh ourselves spiritually and physically. In another hadith, the Prophet, may Allah’s peace and blessing be upon him, advised that tranquility and reverence are essential qualities while performing salah, instead of being hasty. Something I am trying to implement at the moment is taking a few seconds pause before moving from one position in salah to the next. I am finding that it helps me to concentrate. In particular, sajdah is a precious gift and imagine, as another hadith has affirmed, your sins falling off your shoulders when you bow and prostrate. The Prophet, may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him, said:

The nearest a servant comes to his Lord is when he is prostrating himself

Look after yourself and ensure you take short breaks during the day, and view salah as the pauses you need to alleviate your energy and mood.